Great places on the web




These sites offer unique and varied perspectives on sexuality, sensuality, and kink.  – This is terrific resource with hand-selected and categorized links on websites of all kinds. From mild to wild, vanilla to hardcore kink, you’ll find it here, along with reviews on content, quality, and originality. – News and more from all around our crazy, kinky, world.

Literotica – Here’s an incredible collection with thousands of short stories (and some long) about practically everything to do with sexuality, attraction, gender, and lust.

Lust, Love, Latex – This is a fantastic site with all sorts of cool content for kinksters who love latex. 3xL is the owner, and his goal is to motivate, educate and share about the wonders of latex and to show outsiders that latex is a fun and creative lifestyle!


Vibrators and sex toys and lube, oh my!

As kinky explorers, we’re constantly on the lookout for new toys, implements, tools, clothing, and footwear. We appreciate quality, friendly customer service, and efficiency. The links below are to some of our favorite kinky businesses.

Our favorite toys – Are you shopping for your own toys and tools? We’ve selected some of our favorites on Amazon to take the guesswork out of choosing what to buy. We own every toy on our list, and they are all great choices for fun, reliability, and ease of use.

Lovehoney We cannot say enough good things about Lovehoney, but we’ll try. They have a great selection of toys, lubes, kinky gear, lingerie, and more. Shipping is fast, and free for orders over 40 USD, and their return policy is great.

Bare Leatherworks – This is where we buy all of our floggers. The quality is amazing and their customer service is top-notch.

The Stockroom – One of the best BDSM retailers anywhere. They’ve been in business since the 80s, and are a great source for quality toys, implements, clothes, and other kinky gear.

Mr. S Leather – This is a fantastic company to do business with. Their customer service is top-notch and from leather to latex, silicone to steel, Mr. S has you covered.



Kink Resources

There are so many kinky sites on the web, it’s impossible to list them all. Just finding the right ones can be a challenge in all the clutter. We’ve done lots and lots of research to help you and these are just a few great resources in learning about kink.

FetLife – This is a worldwide virtual community of kinky people in every hue under the rainbow. Some people hate it, others love it. Used with foresight and a good dose of common sense, FetLife can be a great tool for networking, link-uping up with like-minded kinksters, and more.

The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance – TASHRA is working to create a world where all kinksters have equal access to culturally competent, non-judgmental, and knowledgeable healthcare.

BDSM on the internet from Ambrosio – This is an informative site about BDSM with lots of great information.

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom – The NCSF aims to advance the rights of, and advocate for consenting adults in the BDSM-Leather-Fetish, Swing, and Polyamory Communities.

Informed Consent – News about our rights as kinky people
 – BDSM activism and news topics in the UK and the rest of the world, within the ethical framework of Informed Consent.

Iron Gate – This is a knowledge and resource database focused on dominance and submission. It’s one of our favorite kinky websites.

Savage Love – Dan Savage is America’s sex columnist. In his weekly column, he gives great advice to people with all sorts of problems. Smart, funny, snarky, and always on-point, Dan’s columns are a must-read for kinky people.

Deborah Sundahl, Author and Sex Educator – Ms. Sundahl is the founder of the Female Ejaculation Sex Education Institute. She conducts workshops and lectures on female ejaculation. Her website is full of great information on this empowering and special part of being a woman.

Xeromag’s brief introduction to BDSM – Another well-done and informative site with lots of important information.





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